Falling asleep from jetlag...
first thing i come home to is my cousin lecturing me on how i handled the raven situation horribly and how she must be feeling like complete trash right now
she said i shouldve just lied but i def dont agree with that
but now im just like but thanks for reminding me i made one of my closest friends ridiculously sad
and cant do anything to change it or help
I think your cousin is wrong.
You've promised to her that the deal you two had was just hooking up. It's not her fault she was emotionally attached, but you should not feel bad about that.
Cousin said I should've ended it the second I didn't have feelings for her anymore, even tho I told her and she was okay with it. Because it's obvious that she wasn't gonna end it if she had feelings for me, but the right move was to end it there, too hopeful to think it would be fine hooking up with a girl that has feelings for u and u don't have feelings for them. Like of course that won't end okay. And I agree with her, but I just wasn't a bigger person back then to end it then, just was ignorant and wanted to think it could work out
you’re honestly letting your cousin influence your feelings
Many of us told you to be careful, and you took every precaution. But ultimately we were not involved, it was between you and raven. Your cousin does NOT know what happened, any more than I or any of your friends do. Don’t regret it shane, you did fine.
